Conflict · Connection · The mental load · Money
Get on the same page with the person you love
Practical tools for couples who keep having the same fight, and want to understand what it’s really about.
Hi, I'm Neely
I write about what couples argue about, because we've argued about it too.
My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We’ve had a lot of the arguments I write about, and for a long time we didn’t understand what they were really about. Once we did, and learned how to talk about it, we became a real team.
I'm a graduate student in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, and I've run my own business since 2007. Here I share the tools that actually helped us, and the ones I use with clients.
Therapy in Texas
Want help working on this together?
I see couples and individuals online for $30 a session as a mental health counseling intern at Vibrant Journey Counseling, supervised by Mehik Malik, MA, LPC-S, and Dr. Kayla Bryant, PhD, LPC-S, at Midwestern State University.
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The No-Fight Script
How to ask your partner for what you want, about money, chores, or time together, without it turning into a fight.
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